That's a good idea. I had thought about something like that but wasn't sure how it would work and I also wasn't sure how safe it would be? I don't know if I'm being overly paranoid! What do you think?
Hi Clodagh, I think it will do well.You can send a private message to get the persons phone number so it wont be online, also at least you know you wont have to travel far to pick up the item if you want to buy it. Id say give it a go !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I definitely think it would work but obviously there would have to be a set of guidelines set up to protect everybody's safety (and all help would be appreciated on that one!). For example, only meet people in public places or, better still, at the outings arranged here. I'm attaching an article on meeting people from the internet.
I'm just being overly cautious because of all the horror stories your hear about this. I would really, really hate for somebody to be hurt in any way as a result of this board.
I found this article on Staying Safe Online It's really aimed at people who are meeting up with a view to friendship/dating, but I've just posted it for general guidelines...
Tips for meeting people in person for the first time
Participating in online chats and discussion groups can lead to wonderful online friendships - even romance. Many people decide to meet their newfound friends in person. It's a good idea to keep some safety tips in mind when meeting an online friend for the first time.
Always tell someone where you are going to meet your online friends. Better still, bring someone along with you.
Always meet in a public place you are familiar with for your first get together.
Trust your instincts. Do you really 'know' someone you've met online? It's easy for people to lie online. I knew someone who perpetuated a lie for over a year online. After a while things just simply didn't add up. If something 'feels' wrong then don't do it.
Don't have your expectations set too high. Remember chat brings together people who sometimes wouldn't ordinarily meet in the real world. Just because you frequent the same chat room or discussion board doesn't necessarily mean you have enough in common with each other to be friends in the real world.
Sometimes face to face just doesn't work out. If you don't feel comfortable in a situation be prepared to leave. Have your own transportation with you so you can make a quick exit.
Bring a cell phone or pager along with you. You might even want to have a friend call you at a certain time to make sure you're okay, or so that you have an excuse to leave gracefully.
Be on your guard. Avoid drinking anything you didn't open or watch being poured yourself. If you get any uncomfortable feeling about the person you're meeting, don't be afraid to leave. (Remember it's better to be safe than to be polite.) If things become unsafe for you at any point, do whatever you have to do to get yourself away from there.